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Hurt Bae Asks: Why Did You Cheat? Exes Confront Each Other On Infidelity (#HurtBae Video)


What did you do? I did everything. Like what? I had sex with other girls. I did everything. We met in school. We met in college. Um, we met in class. And you really didn’t like me. No, I didn’t like you at first. A couple years later we moved into, like, the same apartment complex. And the first day we both moved there we, like, met on the elevator again and it was like a reunion. And then you offered to bring my groceries upstairs. And, um, yeah we spent a lot of time together. Like… every day. I would say that you were my best friend. Yeah. Me too. I would go through his phone and I would, like, see text messages or like, pictures of girls. And then I would ask him about it. And sometimes you would lie. And just say like, “Oh, that’s not true.” “You don’t know what you’re talking about.” And you said, like, “Oh, I’ll stop.” But then you didn’t. One time, I went to his room and he had someone else in his room. And he told me to leave. And I went back to my room and I just cried. Like, the whole night. *Deep breath* And then I think I went like, a little while without talking to you. And then you said something like, “Oh, I’m sorry, I’m not going to do it again.” There was kind of a point where things weren’t the same. What do you mean? Just, like, you would always go through my phone. Or my computer. Yeah. I didn’t trust you. If you would go to that measure to I don’t…to find whatever why wouldn’t you just… leave? I don’t know. I think I was, like, stupid. How many times did you cheat on me? I…I…I…. I don’t know. If you had to say. I…I wasn’t counting. It had more to do with me just not being able to commit. Why not? Because I didn’t… At the time, I really… I didn’t want to. I think just sometimes we’re… we’re just… we’re not on the same page. Yeah. I think that’s true. There’s nothing that you could have done differently that I think would have prevented it. I think that you did everything that you needed to do to be a good girlfriend. And… I was lucky to have someone like you. I don’t think you’re a bad guy because you cheated. I… I… forgave you. Why? Because you’re my best friend. But it was hard. I think we’re like… in the first stage of moving on. Yeah. I think… we’ve both kind of accepted for the first time that it’s really over. I couldn’t, like, today I couldn’t see, like, my life without you. But… I don’t know. I feel like you hurt me a lot, so. I feel like you abandoned me. I apologize for hurting you. And… I hope in the future we can remain good friends. And I get a chance to see you grow into the woman that you’re becoming.

Cesar Sullivan

100 thoughts on “Hurt Bae Asks: Why Did You Cheat? Exes Confront Each Other On Infidelity (#HurtBae Video)

  1. – "Why wouldn't you just leave?"

    "because I think I was stupid"… She said to him but inside she said "because I loved you".

  2. One thing my moms always told me men are all cheaters she thinks i’m a cheater but i would like to prove her wrong i would never break a girls heart like this i would rather have her break my heart.

  3. I hope she finds a man as kind hearted as her. This man is showing no emotional response whatsoever. He didn't diserve her then and still doesn't now.
    Hopefully life will teach him better.

  4. Like ladies I'm sorry I'm sorry that we males just don't understand how valuable y'all love is towards us… it's so sad we take advantage of it at times to spark and fulfill some stupid ego.. 😩😩😞

  5. “Remain good friends”…. yeah suuuuuure, I would be so happy to have a friend like you who hurt, betrayed, cheated and walked all over me and doesn’t even have the decency of looking regretful. Seriously, some people are just trash, and look how beautiful and sweet she is! He’s just miles beneath her ugh

  6. He’s not only a cruel boyfriend, but he’s a cruel person. It looks like it doesn’t completely break his heart that he’s the reason she’s in a vulnerable state

  7. If you do not like somebody at first sight just trust your guts! Your subcontious nature is ringing alarm and you do not need no rational explanation, just turn around and go away as fast as you can.

  8. She should have just bounced on this fool…byyyyeeeee..he wasn't ready and he should not have wasted her time.. friends don't treat you like that..😠😠😠😠 she should move on to someone else..

  9. The guy is just being honest with himself.

    The truth hurts, yes and I am not saying he's a good guy and all but I wish the girl finds her feet clearly she had both her feet in.

  10. See he asked HER why would you just leave me… because he didn't want that responsibility of her leaving, he wanted her to do it… it's called punkAzz

  11. I think he's a callous man with no empathy whatsoever. He has no consciences look at him there's no guilt in his eyes. What a jerk I hope he falls madly in love with someone and gets cheated on so bad that he gets a taste of his own medicine. Karma where ever u are catch hold of this moron.

  12. I feel bad for that one dude who will not know that his girl cheated on ,with me,reason i cant get married or get a girlfriend,theres karma ,better to hit and run.and i think it must be painful.

  13. How could he? He had a beautiful, loving gf who never cheated on him and always spent all her time with him and she even still saw him as a good guy even tho he cheated non stop… He never deserved such an amazing gf

  14. Its ok baby girl God will bless u with a real man who will love and adore u some times we kiss alot of frogs till we find our Prince😢

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  16. He doesn’t deserve friendship. He betrayed her trust in 45 different ways & has left her with deep, deep wounds. He is a disgrace!

  17. This guy is dirty!! I wouldn’t even touch him with a 10 foot pole. To all the ladies out there watching this… STAY FAR AWAY!!
    Ladies smarten upand get yourself a real man! Not someone who’s willing to stick it anywhere!!
    The woman is beautiful! Bless her heart!

  18. This was very emotional for me. Lying also gives sins. She was spending so much time with him but he decided to cheat and having s-*. No woman /men should be treated like this.

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